It´s not me, It´s my hormones!

Yes we do. And it’s ok. I'm going to talk about long-term relationships now, if that’s alright with you. I am 18, my boyfriend is 23 and we are about to have 6 year relationship. Will we be the same people after this time? Well, I hope not! Obviously we won’t be, as we change every second - some people more so than others - but we ALL do. We are a process, not a static thing. We all grow and the most interesting thing is that we do it at different speeds. Some people develop their social skills faster; others their knowledge in terms of theories and information; and some people develop their command of their bodies, movement and coordination etc. What I mean is that we all have our own unique genes and way of growing. Personally, after that 6 year relationship I was on a different page to my ex-boyfriend, which made us decide to break up; he wanted to live with me and settle down, while I wanted to go travelling and discover more about the world and about myself. I...

YOU HAVE TO CREATE IT! Why am I shouting? Yeah, I am shouting at you because it seems that everyone around me is sleeping and blind to the GREAT things we have! And yes, you may be thinking right now: ‘ but you are blind to the bad things we have to deal with!’ YES I AM! Because I want to be! I am going to be here for a few more years, no idea how many, and I am not going to be looking for the things that frustrate me more than anything else. The time I have here I want to enjoy as much as possible and I want to become the best version of myself and bring out the best in you! So if you have a boring, sad and miserable 'sleeping life' (or even just one of the three) it is because you want it! I don’t want to be too hard on you and again I don’t want to forget about those who are less fortunate. I’ve always considered myself very lucky but I have worked at it by thinking this way and attracting what I want. It’s not magic! It is all about focusing on what makes you feel go...

If we had NO BRAIN - uff that doesn’t even bear thinking about! EVERYTHING is in our MIND. They thought SHE was hot, was dancing well and was nicely dressed. So they (two guys) were dancing and touching her sensually. They were getting turned on! Suddenly they found out SHE was a LADYBOY! :/ Oops... They were shocked and felt disgusted by her. They complained about what she had been doing with them! Is it her/his fault? Of course not! Guys, be ready! This can happen! And again, it is all in OUR MIND! In fact, our body is happy to go for it! So if it’s our mind which is not letting us get excited by a Ladyboy, perhaps it is limiting us in other areas of our life where we are not getting the results we want! If we could manage our thoughts, could we get turned on by anyone who we find even remotely attractive??? YES! Can we then enjoy our life at any given moment, just by MANAGING OUR THOUGHTS? YES! Have fun at the parties!!!!

WOOOOOOWWW what a book I just read! Amazing! Tantric sex. Yes Tantric SEXXX. It is a type of meditation, and seems to be the easiest form for humans as WE ARE MADE FROM SEX! This is what the book said. But, in fact, we are made when two people make love, have sex (or whatever other way you want to refer to it) so I would say that it makes sense that sex is the closest thing to us. It still seems to be a taboo theme sometimes, but not in this Blog as you know. So, let me provide you with some more of the insights from this fun book. Tantra doesn’t teach sexuality - I know, sorry for the disappointment! – but it is a source of happiness. It is a bridge. It connects you with the "other side", the universal energy. Please keep reading ;) You have to MELT into a hug, when eating, or during sex! That way these things become part of you, and you and your partner disappear, leaving only a kiss, a hug or excitement left in the room! So Tantra is not o...

I know my neuronal connexions tend to relate different things with each other, but thats my nature, what can I do!!!! Thinking too much to decide something usually is not the best option. Do you remember these times, when you were spontaneous, you didn't think much about if you wanted to do it or not, you just went for it! Like if something inside was telling you to? If you haven't, mmm keep thinking. We can actually never know if a decision is right or is not, as there is always an OPPORTUNITY COST, where we have to renounce to something to get something else. So, whatever we do this will happen. But sometimes we feel like something is right about certain decisions and we just go for it without thinking too much! Yeah I know sometimes when it doesn't go as expected, you learn and say, next time I will think about it twice! But if you keep thinking, I am SURE there was at least A BENEFIT of having taken that decision, if you dont ...

Why do we tend to remember the wrong things? What a question, right? Now, being an analytical person, I could ask but what  is  wrong? And do we always remember them? This is such a lie already !  We make so many  assumptions in life all the time, it’s crazy!! Ok now let me write what I was going to write if that’s alright with you. Is it because we are looking for a good person to be with our kids?   Have you ever thought about this? Obviously in our subconscious mind kids are somewhere. They already occupy a space before they are born, even for women that don’t want to have any. In the same way that we all see the mistakes in a theatre show, we remember when a guy wrongs us (women). In lesbian cases I would need to investigate this a bit more… For example, your boyfriend sleeps with another woman while you are away travelling, and then you find out (it would not make sense if you didn’t find it out in this scenario as if you didn’t kno...

Oh yeah I have! Ggggrrrr you just wanna mmm mmm, yeah that! You wanna have sex!! Ufff sometimes it’s hard to say it, why is that? Is there any regularity to it? Girls, for example, after your period are you more or less horny?   And when you’re in the middle of you ovulation? Let’s make some sense now! What makes sense is that girls have a period which comes every month. Our body starts getting ready to have a baby – yes, a baby! It starts ma king a bag (called the placenta, the place in between the mother and the baby)  to put the baby in. During that process, when we still don’t have "the bag" yet, we can feel as if we don’t have any sexual appetite, we’re not very sexy when we look in the mirror and we’re less motivated to find a guy or a girl (or both depending on the case).  Then that bag gets READY! And, what happens?? I am beautiful! Sexy! Pretty! Awesome! Ready to go! And suddenly there are so many hot guys around! Note: As you know when I sa...