It´s not me, It´s my hormones!

I have been bad. Very bad. With men. Fuc*! Shit! Yep,  Not is not about fuc*ing, or maybe it is! Awww anyway I don’t feel good about it. It feels like I have gone against my values, I have cheated myself! I have never believed in cheating and I have always said the truth, whatever it is. I have been influenced by many people. MY MUM. She is all over my head more than I would like sometimes. I don’t think cheating is good, that’s true, that’s what I think, that’s how I feel. Yes I have done it, a few times, against my values. But wait a minute, is this right? What are my values? There is a new side of me, a new side that says: Live the present and live it fully, whatever that means. And another one that says: Sometimes you don’t need to say everything, especially if it’s going to hurt somebody (That's more like the voice of my friends which I have never been too sure about). How natural is it to stick with one person? I think it’s VERY natural when it happens naturally. What...

Here I am on a Sunday with no-one to meet, and by no-one, I mean guys, obviously!
 Yes, beautiful intelligent women also struggle to have sex, (maybe not generally) but I’m talking about quality sex, sex with emotions, with connection and meaning! Sex that is beautiful, that is serious – that’s the type of sex I would like to experience, and I would like YOU to experience, every-time you have sex with someone. It’s like connecting with the universe, like becoming part of everything, becoming one person, and experiencing life in its deepest way. Ufff. It’s even hard to talk about. My whole body reacts as if I was almost there, we’re not even close really but it sounded good to say! Lol.

 Most of you probably think about sex but, unfortunately the wrong type of sex – not the deep, meaningful one I’m talking about. This is for one simple reason – most people have never experienced it! Research - The simple fact that a great percentage of women do not really enjoy sex gives me this...

God!! So yesterday I was SO horny all day long, I was like OMG! OMG! I need to procreate, lol. Then today, I feel like – who needs a guy? What for? Sex? Ppfff that’s not something I am even interested in. God! How can women deal with this stuff without getting mad? Actually, we do get mad, that was the whole point about me writing right? ‘Whateva'! Hello guys! I'm so happy to be here with you writing about my hormones and about how crazy the world is. Today, as you have already noticed, is all about hormones – such a new topic! First of all, I want to apologize in the name of all women in the world, sorry! Uff as soon as I'm writing this, I'm like, no! I'm not sorry, this is it guys, women have different hormonal changes because we are supposed to have kids – every month we get ready for it and that's great! Is it? Oh ok, there they come, again with these mental contradictions. Does is happen to you girls? You start talking, then suddenly you realise everything ...

Hello beautiful people! And again I asked my lovely Jo to write something about one of my awesome videos. What a girl wants, what a girl needs, whatever makes her happ-yyyy and I don't know the rest of the lyrics. Everybody is always trying to tell you what a girl wants. Here is what it is according to the masses and me... Let's start off with the obvious gargantuan (that means really, really big) penis. Obviously a girl wants to be sexually satisfied. Don't you raise your eyebrows at me. You cannot honestly tell me you would rather not be sexually satisfied. But the whole you-must-have-a-giant-penis-or-you-can-take-a-long-walk-off-of-a-short-pier thing really gets to me...or maybe that was the wrong way of phrasing that...the point is who cares about the size of a guy, if you can satisfy a woman in bed then well done. Pat yourself on the back sir. If your girl is happy no matter the size of your member then congratulations, you are helping to fight the cause fo...

So, this is the first part of part two I wrote few days ago. "This is a joke! So, I have finally met someone from Tinder and I am making business plans with that person and nothing else! I literally mean business, no dating or anything similar to that – not even a mixture of business and pleasure! When I look for business, I get dates, and when I look for dates (which does not happen often), I get business!? How does that work out? Hmmm life can be nonsense! Or is it? The other guys I have been talking to in there are really not that fun. Some of them are ok – they know what jokes to tell to make you laugh, (these guys are good, even if they are copying and pasting the same message to all the girls!) But, the rest are either boring or tell you that they want to make love with you in the first text!?! It’s kind of disgusting, especially if you are not looking for that right away. They actually think sex with them may be better that by yourself!!! Hmmm, we will need to discu...

Tinder is an online dating site. Let me be honest, I have never met anyone from there, but my friend is the number one fan of that app. She keeps meeting different guys every week, (let’s say around 3-4 guys per week), and she says many of them are hot! I have my profile on there, and I have to say, it’s pretty challenging to find someone… and I’m not that picky! Many of the guys that look great are not showing their teeth, or are doing sports with big outfits that cover their face and body... I mean, there is not another way to choose people than by flicking through their pictures, and if the pictures you have are shit or not showing yourself properly, then?¿ My friend recommended me to join and she gave me advice of how to use it properly. I thought this advice could be useful for you...  Unless you are 100% sure that a guy is super, don’t even try, as you will most likely be disappointed. If pictures are not great, then sorry fellas, you have lost any chance. Being grea...

So, this is the situation. You meet someone (a guy, ok, no, “a man”), who seems to be nice, then after an hour comfortably chatting to each other he tries to kiss you, you say “no, I don´t want to, thanks”. He asks why, you say, I just don´t want to. He is ok with that but asks you to catch up again in few days, I say “yeah why not, its ok” (thinking this could be a great friendship or even a business opportunity, who knows), after saying I don´t want to kiss you I really thought that part was clear! He is an interesting man, attractive (kind of) and has a good heart. Then on the second meeting, we go to the beach, he comes all ready to have an amazing few hours and says he booked a table in a very nice restaurant nearby. All seems to be going so well, we connect, we have great conversations, we complement each other (REALLY NICE COMPLEMENTS), we have a super bath at the sea, we start planning a video shoot together, we chat chat chat (at this point I really thought it was ...

I am going to focus today on girls' craziness. We all have talked about this at some point.  Are girls crazy? Are we?  Yes ok we are. But there is a reason, or many reasons for it. GUYS, this is a message for you. I am not a doctor yet, but I am a curious person who researches everything. I need to understand my body in order to understand myself better.  I search all my questions in scientific books then I come on here and talk about it in my own words. This is an overview of why sometimes (or a lot of the time) women have frequent mood changes:  We have a body ready to create babies, it gets ready every month. The first few days when the menstrual cycle starts, the uterus is covered with blood to be fertilised. In other words, our body is ready for babies! If it's not fertilized (if you don't have sex and the semen doesn't goes inside the woman and to the uterus), the blood comes out in form of period, which we all hate! This happens because its...

Would you like to quickly and easily check the attitude of the person you are about to meet, in order to make sure he/she is open minded and hasn’t come expecting anything? Make a "weird" or unusual plan! But do not tell him/her about it beforehand! Examples, ok exampleeeees!!! They’re coming!!! Be patient! :P Invite him/her to your birthday and then bring along another person of the same sex. So, if you are dating a guy, bring another guy; if you are dating a girl, bring another girl. You don’t need to explain to your date who this other person is when you meet up, just go for it and observe!! It is FUN!! And it will tell you a lot about the person you are dating! Be creative, this is just an example. Any uncommon situations are GREAT! Thank you for reading! Nerea (Spanish Version) No hay nada mejor que poner a tu acompañante de cita en una situación “extraña”  ¿Te gustaría comprobar de forma rápida y fácil la ACTITUD de la persona con qui...

Why do we tend to remember the wrong things? What a question, right? Now, being an analytical person, I could ask but what  is  wrong? And do we always remember them? This is such a lie already !  We make so many  assumptions in life all the time, it’s crazy!! Ok now let me write what I was going to write if that’s alright with you. Is it because we are looking for a good person to be with our kids?   Have you ever thought about this? Obviously in our subconscious mind kids are somewhere. They already occupy a space before they are born, even for women that don’t want to have any. In the same way that we all see the mistakes in a theatre show, we remember when a guy wrongs us (women). In lesbian cases I would need to investigate this a bit more… For example, your boyfriend sleeps with another woman while you are away travelling, and then you find out (it would not make sense if you didn’t find it out in this scenario as if you didn’t kno...

They love it! Really! Beacuse of the society not sure why we tend to think that guys have to approach girls to get to know them, and then girls just have to look good and smile while the guy has to create an amazing conversation and become crazy asking original and creative quiestions! Well fortunately! This is changing and guys are more confident about theirselves and are looking for girls who can do it too! But of course there are always people who don't know yet! Thats's why I am writing about it to make sure this is accesible to all! So no excuses now! Go and talk to guys, why do they have to come to you? well is good if they do but if you like someone why do you have to wait the whole night for him and then because you lost your focus for one sec he is gone! Don't take that risk take another one more fun! This it's just an adventure! Few things can happen, "Ok situation" - The guy just fall in love straight away because you are ...