It´s not me, It´s my hormones!

The basics. What does it mean to get him engaged forever? Not to only make him chase you until he gets you but to also know that even if you break up, any time you want to go back with him, he will be there ready to go back with you even if the years have passed. Sounds arrogant, right? I know! I am a bit arrogant at times but I'm not attached to it and hope you aren't either. Please don't take any of my articles personally if you have been my boyfriend or 'no boyfriend' before. You know me and you know I love and admire you a tone. Probably some of you are asking, what kind of men do that!?!? Let me tell you more about them on my next article. You will be surprised. Hight value women of the world... I know what you are thinking when you see the title of this article... "you mean how to get rid of him right?!?!" well that's the article I personally need to read sometimes but I know some of you are looking to read exactly the opposite, how to ke...

I touched on this briefly in an earlier article but I think I feel it is necessary to expand on this a bit...What is love? Because all the films are telling us it's our prince charming coming along and saving the day, but the modern woman doesn't need a man to sweep them off of their feet, do they? And this prince charming theory very much relies on the certainty of the male that he is in love and so how do THEY know? I'm fairly sure that most women are happier not to have to rely on a guy to solve their problems. And I know whilst everyone likes to feel supported, having the responsibility for our own lives regardless of gender is somewhat freeing.  But when it comes to love, who is there to decide when it is REALLY love? Who has the power to look at a couple and tell them they aren't really in love, they are in lust, or they are young and niave... How are we supposed to know what love is? And when it is real? And what does it mean to be 'in love'? Is lo...

Pheromones. We've also all heard of them, but what actually are they and how do they effect us? Cue boring science-y bit, let's learn something together. Pheromones are a type of hormone that operate outside of the body and send signals which are received through the nose. These signals effect members of the same species in either a physical or emotional way.  NOTE. I am going to confess something by the end of this article, so read the whole of it or go to the end! According to research conducted in Sweden using brain imaging, men and women can send and respond to these signals through an area in the brain called the hyperthalamos which deals with sexual behaviour and emotions specifically.  So what we are really saying here is that men (or women) looking to get some action, release the smell of I-am-looking-for-action and that someone will respond to this, all without words. You know that feeling you get when you first meet someone and you are way n...

I am going to focus today on girls' craziness. We all have talked about this at some point.  Are girls crazy? Are we?  Yes ok we are. But there is a reason, or many reasons for it. GUYS, this is a message for you. I am not a doctor yet, but I am a curious person who researches everything. I need to understand my body in order to understand myself better.  I search all my questions in scientific books then I come on here and talk about it in my own words. This is an overview of why sometimes (or a lot of the time) women have frequent mood changes:  We have a body ready to create babies, it gets ready every month. The first few days when the menstrual cycle starts, the uterus is covered with blood to be fertilised. In other words, our body is ready for babies! If it's not fertilized (if you don't have sex and the semen doesn't goes inside the woman and to the uterus), the blood comes out in form of period, which we all hate! This happens because its...

This article is going to be special, yes, special! Well, all my articles are, specially for me! But this one is not going to be grammatically checked, some of the past articles have been checked to make sure you, the readers, could understand it, but this one is going to be “pure”, straight how I talk, so how I write! You may find grammar mistakes, sometimes I have no clue they are mistakes, other times, I do them in propose because it sounds good to me, so I like it! Such a good way of not showing how bad I am, right? Hahah seriously, I am being honest! Anyway, I am sure you will understand almost 100%. Last days I have been reading a book called, “Porque somos como somos” from Eduardo Punset, a Spanish writer I love, he usually speaks about my favourite topics, as... I let you guess... Yeah HORMONES, people, emotional intelligence, brain... My freak topics. I did love the book, and I really loved some parts of it. There was few pages speaking about LOVE, yeah lo...

I would not normally share a picture of myself in this condition. And not just because it does not happen very often, but because when it does happens, its not something I like to promote! But this time however, I thought 'come on let's do it!' There must be many people who have felt like how I felt yesterday.

Hello beautiful people, Have you missed me? I have. Missed you, I mean! Recently we have had someone checking my articles to make sure my English was correct, thanks Matthew Kyle for dedicating your time to us. So I decided to slow down the writing until everything was checked and corrected. That’s why I've missed you so much and you've missed me too. I have still kept you updated on our Facebook Community which seems to be the biggest Hormones Community in the world! Ole!

Past traumas or "bad experiences"  ---- Forget about them as soon as possible! Everyone is different and may not do what the previous person did unless you expect it to be so, in which case you are probably projecting that into the relationship. And the result will be the same in all your relationships. Things can be different. The page you are on that moment  ---- What are you looking for at the moment? A quick relationship, sex, a few dates for fun, a long-term relationship, or are you just focused on your career so have no time for anything? How does not thinking about any of these things and just enjoying the moment sound? Things will happen anyway, as your subconscious mind will act for you! Understanding your Hormones/ How you feel today  ---- Whether you’re on your period, you're super hot, you feel sexy, you need some cuddles & hugs, you just want to have a laugh, you do not want to be touched (or you do), you just want to touch, you had a gre...

Oh yeah I have! Ggggrrrr you just wanna mmm mmm, yeah that! You wanna have sex!! Ufff sometimes it’s hard to say it, why is that? Is there any regularity to it? Girls, for example, after your period are you more or less horny?   And when you’re in the middle of you ovulation? Let’s make some sense now! What makes sense is that girls have a period which comes every month. Our body starts getting ready to have a baby – yes, a baby! It starts ma king a bag (called the placenta, the place in between the mother and the baby)  to put the baby in. During that process, when we still don’t have "the bag" yet, we can feel as if we don’t have any sexual appetite, we’re not very sexy when we look in the mirror and we’re less motivated to find a guy or a girl (or both depending on the case).  Then that bag gets READY! And, what happens?? I am beautiful! Sexy! Pretty! Awesome! Ready to go! And suddenly there are so many hot guys around! Note: As you know when I sa...

I am telling you, stop thinking you are the one making a mess! Our hormones do affect us and also them! So don't worry that much and just listen to them, give them what they want with the resources you have and relax. You can see in one of the first articles the different states of the hormones I am referring to. I would say... Most of the mental  suffering  moments we have, could be solved through emotional  intelligence . Mean knowing and managing your  thoughts  so your feelings. It is not an easy thing to do when all we have learned at school, university and so on is books! But is never late for it! If you are confident about yourself, happy with yourself and respect yourself, the person you have  relationship  with should not be half of you! Independence and support sounds better for a relationship than dependence because of insecurity I would say. Good night! Good morning! Nerea

YES! They do! In a different way that it affects girls obviously. Let me share a link with you which might be interesting. She explain the different cicles guys have during the day. http://myhormonesmademedoit.com/the-male-hormone-cycle/ I am not a guy, so can not really say, but have you ever girls felt this changes, in the morning... well