It´s not me, It´s my hormones!

The basics. What does it mean to get him engaged forever? Not to only make him chase you until he gets you but to also know that even if you break up, any time you want to go back with him, he will be there ready to go back with you even if the years have passed. Sounds arrogant, right? I know! I am a bit arrogant at times but I'm not attached to it and hope you aren't either. Please don't take any of my articles personally if you have been my boyfriend or 'no boyfriend' before. You know me and you know I love and admire you a tone. Probably some of you are asking, what kind of men do that!?!? Let me tell you more about them on my next article. You will be surprised. Hight value women of the world... I know what you are thinking when you see the title of this article... "you mean how to get rid of him right?!?!" well that's the article I personally need to read sometimes but I know some of you are looking to read exactly the opposite, how to ke...

I have been bad. Very bad. With men. Fuc*! Shit! Yep,  Not is not about fuc*ing, or maybe it is! Awww anyway I don’t feel good about it. It feels like I have gone against my values, I have cheated myself! I have never believed in cheating and I have always said the truth, whatever it is. I have been influenced by many people. MY MUM. She is all over my head more than I would like sometimes. I don’t think cheating is good, that’s true, that’s what I think, that’s how I feel. Yes I have done it, a few times, against my values. But wait a minute, is this right? What are my values? There is a new side of me, a new side that says: Live the present and live it fully, whatever that means. And another one that says: Sometimes you don’t need to say everything, especially if it’s going to hurt somebody (That's more like the voice of my friends which I have never been too sure about). How natural is it to stick with one person? I think it’s VERY natural when it happens naturally. What...

Here I am on a Sunday with no-one to meet, and by no-one, I mean guys, obviously!
 Yes, beautiful intelligent women also struggle to have sex, (maybe not generally) but I’m talking about quality sex, sex with emotions, with connection and meaning! Sex that is beautiful, that is serious – that’s the type of sex I would like to experience, and I would like YOU to experience, every-time you have sex with someone. It’s like connecting with the universe, like becoming part of everything, becoming one person, and experiencing life in its deepest way. Ufff. It’s even hard to talk about. My whole body reacts as if I was almost there, we’re not even close really but it sounded good to say! Lol.

 Most of you probably think about sex but, unfortunately the wrong type of sex – not the deep, meaningful one I’m talking about. This is for one simple reason – most people have never experienced it! Research - The simple fact that a great percentage of women do not really enjoy sex gives me this...

God!! So yesterday I was SO horny all day long, I was like OMG! OMG! I need to procreate, lol. Then today, I feel like – who needs a guy? What for? Sex? Ppfff that’s not something I am even interested in. God! How can women deal with this stuff without getting mad? Actually, we do get mad, that was the whole point about me writing right? ‘Whateva'! Hello guys! I'm so happy to be here with you writing about my hormones and about how crazy the world is. Today, as you have already noticed, is all about hormones – such a new topic! First of all, I want to apologize in the name of all women in the world, sorry! Uff as soon as I'm writing this, I'm like, no! I'm not sorry, this is it guys, women have different hormonal changes because we are supposed to have kids – every month we get ready for it and that's great! Is it? Oh ok, there they come, again with these mental contradictions. Does is happen to you girls? You start talking, then suddenly you realise everything ...

This is what one of our best readers said: "You said that women don´t like men with too much confidence, so I want to ask you about the meaning, with examples and everything you can provide". Confidence, this is the topic of today.  First question. What do you mean by being confident? Is this the same as feeling confident? What is it that you want?  Do you wanna show yourself as confident to get the girl independently of how you feel inside? Or you wanna become a confident person? And let yourself go, be yourself, a confident man? Because seriously I can teach you how to look confident, or even Wikihow which is one of the most "interesting" sites I have ever read can also help you, they are not too wrong. http://www.wikihow.com/Appear-Confident-to-Women If you want to become a puppet go for it, but make sure you are okay about attracting a puppet. Unless you are a GREAT actor, this may not really work. Body language is POWERFUL, it is, but if you use your ...

Hello everyone! I made this video, thinking it would create some critiques and revelations! It has worked! Yayyyy! I am usually one of the most positive people I have ever met, and this time I was just not, for once, I thought it would be okay, still this video is about finding the positives about all these points, obviously I could not be JUST NEGATIVE. But I have found many people that have not accepted basic things that we need to face sometimes and I know they are not easy to; and of course I am also talking to myself, most of the time, the blog, the workshops, the videos I make they are all messages to myself, just in case you thought it was about you! ;) We, humans, usually do speak to ourselves unconsciously, imagine when your mum says, "don´t do that, it's dangerous", "don´t do that it's bad for you", that is the fear SHE HAS, not you! So I wanted to be a bit harsh and speak about things we usually don´t even want to name, hear in our head or ...

Tinder is an online dating site. Let me be honest, I have never met anyone from there, but my friend is the number one fan of that app. She keeps meeting different guys every week, (let’s say around 3-4 guys per week), and she says many of them are hot! I have my profile on there, and I have to say, it’s pretty challenging to find someone… and I’m not that picky! Many of the guys that look great are not showing their teeth, or are doing sports with big outfits that cover their face and body... I mean, there is not another way to choose people than by flicking through their pictures, and if the pictures you have are shit or not showing yourself properly, then?¿ My friend recommended me to join and she gave me advice of how to use it properly. I thought this advice could be useful for you...  Unless you are 100% sure that a guy is super, don’t even try, as you will most likely be disappointed. If pictures are not great, then sorry fellas, you have lost any chance. Being grea...

Hello! I know quite contradictory post when all I promote here is sex! Right? Well today I would like to point out these times when we are not enjoying enough in bed and for some reason we just carry on, when I say we are not enjoying enough I mean, it is not good enough for our standards or wishes, not that we are hating it but just not being as good as we know it could be. Why don´t we say no? When we are not that horny? Ego? Insecurity? You just want to make sure you are having regular sex even if it´s mediocre? Maybe to double check how much you love someone else you are dating already? You don´t want to let the guy/ girl down? You are afraid of what the other person will think about you if you stop it in the middle of the session? There are many types of sex sessions, the ones that are just sex, the ones that are connected to the universe and the passional quick ones, just to classify them somehow. I am sure we could bring more than 100 to the tabl...

So, this is the situation. You meet someone (a guy, ok, no, “a man”), who seems to be nice, then after an hour comfortably chatting to each other he tries to kiss you, you say “no, I don´t want to, thanks”. He asks why, you say, I just don´t want to. He is ok with that but asks you to catch up again in few days, I say “yeah why not, its ok” (thinking this could be a great friendship or even a business opportunity, who knows), after saying I don´t want to kiss you I really thought that part was clear! He is an interesting man, attractive (kind of) and has a good heart. Then on the second meeting, we go to the beach, he comes all ready to have an amazing few hours and says he booked a table in a very nice restaurant nearby. All seems to be going so well, we connect, we have great conversations, we complement each other (REALLY NICE COMPLEMENTS), we have a super bath at the sea, we start planning a video shoot together, we chat chat chat (at this point I really thought it was ...

I would not normally share a picture of myself in this condition. And not just because it does not happen very often, but because when it does happens, its not something I like to promote! But this time however, I thought 'come on let's do it!' There must be many people who have felt like how I felt yesterday.

Yesterday, I delivered a great speech in Toastmaters (International Public Speaking Club).  As I don't have anything to do, I sometimes just go and pretend I am a speaker! ;) I am going to share it here with you. I am going to promote love.

Have you ever tried not discussing the boyfriend/girlfriend/special friend/wife/husband tag? It might not affect everyone, but I am finding that in more and more cases it does! The most important thing in any relationship from my point of view is having fun! What's the point of dating anyone if it’s not to have fun? Don’t waste your time or your friend's time by arguing, it’s not worth it! People sometimes need to know what situation they are in with their partner/friend/whatever in order to feel safe! But, in fact, if we think about it, why do we need to know so much? Is it gonna improve the relationship, or it is gonna make it worse? Is it some sort of insecurity? Does it make us feel more secure if we know he/she is my boy/girlfriend? Well in my opinion it should stay as it is... but in fact it does affect us! When you say "do not touch that" or "do not do that" to a kid the first thing he or she is going to want to do is to do it! There’s no way ...

Here’s a sentence I heard in Spain last week: "Y sabes que al Murray no ligas" - ‘You know in Murray you won’t hook up with anyone.’ :/ Yeah that’s exactly the face I made! Murray is the name of a club. The situation was a friend speaking with another friend over the phone, deciding where to go to party. Based on this person’s info, Murray is the type of club where you won’t find a girl to hook up with. Does he go every week and has yet to find any interesting girls? Did he go just once and this happened? Whatever it was, this sounded like a belief that he had formed in his mind due to previous experiences. Beliefs limit us in many ways: “Because I believe this, I can’t do that” or “because I do believe that, I can do this.” “I am shy.” “I am not creative.” “I cannot find a nice girl out there.” Just ask a number of different people whether they used to be shy, or they used to not be creative, and I guarantee you that there are people who used to be both these th...