Life seems not to have meaning sometimes, I know, but…

YOU HAVE TO CREATE IT!

Why am I shouting? Yeah, I am shouting at you because it seems that everyone around me is sleeping and blind to the GREAT things we have!
And yes, you may be thinking right now: ‘but you are blind to the bad things we have to deal with!’

YES I AM! Because I want to be! I am going to be here for a few more years, no idea how many, and I am not going to be looking for the things that frustrate me more than anything else. The time I have here I want to enjoy as much as possible and I want to become the best version of myself and bring out the best in you!

So if you have a boring, sad and miserable 'sleeping life' (or even just one of the three) it is because you want it!
I don’t want to be too hard on you and again I don’t want to forget about those who are less fortunate. I’ve always considered myself very lucky but I have worked at it by thinking this way and attracting what I want. It’s not magic! It is all about focusing on what makes you feel good and removing what doesn’t. You can apply this to any situation.

When I said ‘create the meaning’ I meant if you go to a party and you are bored, do something which brings the fun you want, or go home! Dance, dance, dance, meet girls/boys, invent stories about yourself and take the piss a bit (just for fun!). Do not wait for someone to do it for you. ;)

THE MEANING OF LIFE IS GIVING IT A MEANING! Click YES!

Have a GREAT/AWESOME day/night!

Thanks Nish for the inspiration for this article.

Nerea

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