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What do girls want when a guy approaches them?


Honesty!

Be yourself!

If you are someone who is shy, don’t worry, just approach the girl and say: "Look, I am really nervous about talking to you, but you know you are so beautiful and I think it would be worth it!"
This will sound so sweet and HONEST!

We want someone who is passionate about life, someone who knows himself, what he is doing and why. Are you ready to find the girl of your dreams? And, I’m assuming, you also want this girl to think you’re the guy of her dreams?!
It’s not about pretending to be something you are not, but working on yourself. Knowing what kind of girl you want and going out and finding it!
If she feels that you are just approaching every girl without any sort of filter (and you can bet that she will almost certainly notice if you are!) she won’t like that one bit.

So, sit down and reflect. Describe the girl of your dreams - what she looks like and what her personality is like. Visualize her and go look for her. It may be harder to find her, but the reward will be worth it!

Girls please feel free to share your thoughts, and of course I would apply the same for the opposite sex, as I already wrote about GIRLS APPROACHING GUYS in previous articles.



Have a lovely night/day! And good luck!
Nerea

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