What is a realationship?

What do we mean by relationship?
Do we really want to follow all the rules we have learnt for a relationship? Really?
How many dates means we are in a relationship?
What type of conversations means we are in a relationship?
What kind of things we do with our date means we are in a relationship?
How many dates do we have to have to have sex with someone? And, will that mean anything?

We are sometimes so condition for all this info someone put in our heads!

Can we please stop thinking and start living in our own logical way?
Why things make sense for us, how do we get these conclusions?

Can we have the best passional, loving momentos with someone we have just met? And feel it as if you knew that person from long time ago? With a perfect tune?

If we don't start learning that love is coming from inside ourselves and we can feel it any time we want we can actually not feel it!

Make the decision of feeling.

This article is with the propose of inspiring and make you think, I don't have and I don't want to give you the answers, but to make you reflect or get your own conclusions.
Sometimes being inspiring means not to give a solution or a full opinion, or even say thinks your don't believe in, but giving a range of options, open your mind and shows you other ways to think and live.

Have a beautiful day | night
Nerea

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