Guys DO NOT say this in the first date... PLEASE

1rs date.

Everything looks so perfect, exciting, fun, such a great conversation, his plans match perfectly with the plans I was looking for!! But then suddenly...

Guy: "Qué bien el finde que viene JUNTITOS!" (It´s so good next weekend together!)

Ups! should I not have planned anything? How can I say NO now? And, it seems I am going to have to spend next two weeks with him!

And in the other hand. What if he would not have said that? Would I have thought he is not interested in making plans with me? And then wrong too?

Thanks for reading!
Nerea

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