It´s not me, It´s my hormones!

Have you ever tried not discussing the boyfriend/girlfriend/special friend/wife/husband tag? It might not affect everyone, but I am finding that in more and more cases it does! The most important thing in any relationship from my point of view is having fun! What's the point of dating anyone if it’s not to have fun? Don’t waste your time or your friend's time by arguing, it’s not worth it! People sometimes need to know what situation they are in with their partner/friend/whatever in order to feel safe! But, in fact, if we think about it, why do we need to know so much? Is it gonna improve the relationship, or it is gonna make it worse? Is it some sort of insecurity? Does it make us feel more secure if we know he/she is my boy/girlfriend? Well in my opinion it should stay as it is... but in fact it does affect us! When you say "do not touch that" or "do not do that" to a kid the first thing he or she is going to want to do is to do it! There’s no way ...

I know I tend to relate different things with each other, but that’s my nature, what can I do!!!! Thinking too much when deciding something is usually not the best option. Do you remember the moments when you were spontaneous, when you didn't think much about whether you wanted to do something or not, but you just went for it?! As if something inside was telling you to? If you don’t remember, mmm keep thinking. We can actually never know if a decision is right or not, as there is always an OPPORTUNITY COST, where we have to renounce something to get something else. So, whatever we do this will happen.   But sometimes we feel like something about certain decisions is right and we just go for it without thinking too much! Yeah I know sometimes when it doesn't go as expected, you learn and say ‘next time I will think twice about it!’ But if you keep on thinking, I am SURE there was at least A BENEFIT of having taken that decision. If y...

Feelings are on a different level to words. That’s all I wanted to say today. ;) Have an awesome day/night! Los sentimientos están en un nivel diferente que las palabras. Esto es todo lo que quería decir hoy ;) ¡Que tengáis un día/noche genial!

Yes, some studios say so... as many as that! Ladies, I know it’s scary, but an orgasm is one of the biggest emotions you can ever experience and you need to have at least one proper one before you die! Please, please, do it – at least for me! ;) How do we know if our sex life or the orgasms we are currently having are as great as they could be? That’s a good question, isn’t it? Well, it’s obviously hard to know when that’s all we have experienced. If you would like to start learning a bit more about both yourself and your Erotic Fingerprint then keep on reading… YOUR EROTIC FINGERPRINT Answer each of these questions to understand your own unique, and personal, brand of sexuality. You may wish to write down the answers, or you may just prefer to answer in your head. There’s no need to share your answers with anyone, even with your partner, unless you want to do so. As an adult: 1. Which moments of your life do you remember as being the most pleasant? When did you exper...

Would you like to quickly and easily check the attitude of the person you are about to meet, in order to make sure he/she is open minded and hasn’t come expecting anything? Make a "weird" or unusual plan! But do not tell him/her about it beforehand! Examples, ok exampleeeees!!! They’re coming!!! Be patient! :P Invite him/her to your birthday and then bring along another person of the same sex. So, if you are dating a guy, bring another guy; if you are dating a girl, bring another girl. You don’t need to explain to your date who this other person is when you meet up, just go for it and observe!! It is FUN!! And it will tell you a lot about the person you are dating! Be creative, this is just an example. Any uncommon situations are GREAT! Thank you for reading! Nerea (Spanish Version) No hay nada mejor que poner a tu acompañante de cita en una situación “extraña”  ¿Te gustaría comprobar de forma rápida y fácil la ACTITUD de la persona con qui...

Here’s a sentence I heard in Spain last week: "Y sabes que al Murray no ligas" - ‘You know in Murray you won’t hook up with anyone.’ :/ Yeah that’s exactly the face I made! Murray is the name of a club. The situation was a friend speaking with another friend over the phone, deciding where to go to party. Based on this person’s info, Murray is the type of club where you won’t find a girl to hook up with. Does he go every week and has yet to find any interesting girls? Did he go just once and this happened? Whatever it was, this sounded like a belief that he had formed in his mind due to previous experiences. Beliefs limit us in many ways: “Because I believe this, I can’t do that” or “because I do believe that, I can do this.” “I am shy.” “I am not creative.” “I cannot find a nice girl out there.” Just ask a number of different people whether they used to be shy, or they used to not be creative, and I guarantee you that there are people who used to be both these th...

Past traumas or "bad experiences"  ---- Forget about them as soon as possible! Everyone is different and may not do what the previous person did unless you expect it to be so, in which case you are probably projecting that into the relationship. And the result will be the same in all your relationships. Things can be different. The page you are on that moment  ---- What are you looking for at the moment? A quick relationship, sex, a few dates for fun, a long-term relationship, or are you just focused on your career so have no time for anything? How does not thinking about any of these things and just enjoying the moment sound? Things will happen anyway, as your subconscious mind will act for you! Understanding your Hormones/ How you feel today  ---- Whether you’re on your period, you're super hot, you feel sexy, you need some cuddles & hugs, you just want to have a laugh, you do not want to be touched (or you do), you just want to touch, you had a gre...