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The 'official' tag definitely affects us

Have you ever tried not discussing the boyfriend/girlfriend/special friend/wife/husband tag? It might not affect everyone, but I am finding that in more and more cases it does! The most important thing in any relationship from my point of view is having fun! What's the point of dating anyone if it’s not to have fun? Don’t waste your time or your friend's time by arguing, it’s not worth it! People sometimes need to know what situation they are in with their partner/friend/whatever in order to feel safe! But, in fact, if we think about it, why do we need to know so much? Is it gonna improve the relationship, or it is gonna make it worse? Is it some sort of insecurity? Does it make us feel more secure if we know he/she is my boy/girlfriend? Well in my opinion it should stay as it is... but in fact it does affect us! When you say "do not touch that" or "do not do that" to a kid the first thing he or she is going to want to do is to do it! There’s no way